Since starting my blog in 2009, the one post that I has gotten the most hits is the one dealing with African-American women and obesity. It has reached over 800 hits thus far.
As a Black female who has struggled with her weight all of her life and has now kept a significant amount of weight off, I am more aware of the problem of African-American women being extremely heavy. When I was 60 pounds heavier I was not truly cognizant of the situation. I guess I thought it was normal. However, I see so many young African-American women overweight, it is very disturbing and to me a crisis that no one in the African-American community or the health community at large is addressing.
Health is important. Health equals wealth. The healthy you are, the longer you can generate income and live a long productive life. Now that I am “middle-age” (I turned 41 in April) I realize that going to the doctor is not cheap and I want to do as much preventative care as possible. I recently went to my physician in July for a physical and got a clean bill of health. My blood glucose level was 77 and all of my blood chemistry panels were normal. Here is a link to my results if you want to read them. Being sick is expensive and I am very grateful that I have health insurance because if I didn’t I would have paid close to $1,000.00 out of my own pocket for my doctor’s visit. Yes, this $1,000.00 tab included the doctor’s visit, the physical, the lab tests and the radiologist visit because my doctor ordered an ultrasound of my uterus.
No, Black females are not lazy because I know many of you reading this are thinking that. I did not see myself as lazy and slothful. My weight was always in the back of my mind because I did not know what to do to get it off. At one point in the 1990′s I was literally killing myself at the gym trying to drop weight. People would always say, “just don’t eat so much” and to be honest I did not. Once I figured out that my body did not tolerate carbs well, especially wheat, that I finally got that I had to watch my carbs, sugar, wheat intake etc. to keep my body in check.
I know what I am going to say is going to offend some people, however these are my observations of what I see, not necessarily steeped in fact. So here it is: From what I observe there is strong cultural pressure for White women to stay thin and for whatever reason Black females do not “feel” this cultural pressure to stay thin. One thing I know for sure is that for most Black women, their self-esteem is not necessarily tied to how much they weigh. With that being said I feel that Black women need to have a paradigm shift immediately and put more emphasis on staying at a healthy weight. Being “fat and fine” is not cool. It causes so many health problems down the road. And to be honest it also affects income.
Again, all of this is my observation, nothing steeped in scientific research. I really notice this while attending a retreat this past week. The lunch that was served was the traditional southern style food: fried chicken, barbecue, hush puppies, sweet tea, fried fish, salisbury steak, you all get the drift. Anyway, me always in observing mode , I notice how the black women ate and the white women ate. African-American women ate the food as what I would call “normal.” They enjoyed it. They did not pile their plates with food mind you, but they were not as discriminating with what they ate. In other words nothing was off-limits. If they wanted fried chicken, they ate fried chicken. If they wanted banana pudding, they ate banana pudding. The food was there to be enjoyed and savored. As a matter of fact, there was so much food left, participants at the retreat were encouraged to take food home so it would not be wasted. I observed a couple of black women getting take out containers to take food home with them. No White female did this.
The White females were a little different. I would say they were much more discriminating. There were a couple who did not get any meat. The portions that White females as a whole were small and none went back for seconds, unless it was for something to drink. As a matter of fact while I was standing in line there was one White female who was not eating any meat and she was getting some other items and a Black female across from her looked at her is a disapproving eye and said, “What, that is all you are going to eat?” The young White female responded with a smile, “I am a very picky eater.”
Also as an aside, I observed the men as well. During the retreat, women, both Black and White brought snacks and were constantly eating throughout the retreat. Men of both races did not bring or eat any snacks. Could this be why men lose weight faster than women, because they do not snack as much? Yet, I digress. That topic is for another blog post.
Now, why am I saying all of this? This obesity issue with Black females is going to kill us and it already is. Am I saying we should be more like White females? No. What I am saying we can not down play this obesity thing by saying I am a “fat and fine” and I am a BBW. Nor should we go to the other extreme and have eating disorders. We have to be to be more discriminate about what we put in our mouths. There is a difference between being Toccarra Jones big (who by the way is 5’9 and weighs 170 pounds) and Gaby Sidibe big (300 plus pounds.) And speaking of income, Gaby Sidibe’s roles are limited due to her size. Anna Wintour said she did not want her on the cover of Vogue, which is a huge career move for anyone in Hollywood. Look, it is already difficult for Black actors and actresses to get roles in Hollywood. That is just the reality of the situation. But if you are 300 plus pounds it is even more difficult. I believe that is why Jennifer Hudson lost so much weight. Jennifer knew if she did not drop the pounds, acting gigs were going to dry up quick and she would not be considered for a lot of terrific roles. It was a career and income move for her, period, and I am proud of Jennifer for dropping the weight and looking terrific. There were a lot of African-American women who are angry with Jennifer for losing weight because she was not going to be a part of the “Big Girls Club.” Look guys, it was a career and income move. A woman has to make a living and if their are millions of dollars on the line, you would lose weight, too.
And by the way, Jennifer Hudson was on the cover of Vogue. So was our First Lady, Michelle Obama. So race had nothing to do with Gaby getting on the cover of Vogue. Gaby’s weight was her downfall for not getting that coveted honor. Yeah, sure, she was on the cover of Elle. But Elle magazine is not Vogue.
I do not know how to solve this problem. The only thing I know to do is to continue to change myself and be an inspiration to others. But I would like to hear from you all. Why do you think this obesity issue is a problem with Black females? How can this problem be solved. You can leave comments on my blog or you can email me at thelibraryteacer@gmail.com. I love to read your comments and ideas.